The best aphrodisiac is the mind since it allows the imagination to create the ideal conditions for a blissful union. However, to help you navigate the tricky delicacies of intimacy, Psychic Advisor Minerva has comprised some tips using astrology and the 12 Zodiac signs as a guide.
1. Aries – Passion Seekers
Aries is a fire sign ruled by Mars. The fire element gives Aries intensity and passionate desires. Mars provides Aries with a fearless and confident drive when it comes to intimacy, making them passionate lovers.
Engagement tips:
- To enhance your union with Aries, allow your passions to surface.
- Aries finds confidence sexy.
- Don’t be shy about your desire, because Aries aim to please.
Most compatible:
Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
2. Taurus – Marathon Lover
Taurus is an Earth sign, ruled by Venus. The Earth element is expressed in a tireless quest for pleasure that doesn’t seem to quit. Venus gives Taurus their romantic tendencies which can manifest even in causal relationships.
Engagement tips:
- Prepare for prolonged and engaging moments of intimacy.
- Wear sexy or eye-catching attire.
- Romance is a slow and deliberate process.
Most compatible:
Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn, Pisces, Scorpio, Cancer
3. Gemini – Experimenter
Gemini, an air sign ruled by Mercury, is a fluid and versatile sign. With Gemini, intimacy can take on exciting qualities that change from moment to moment ranging from long sessions of cuddling to quick explosive encounters.
Engagement tips:
- Flexibility is an essential quality.
- Be spontaneous since the mood can strike at any moment.
- Be flirty - that is one way to capture their attention!
Most compatible:
Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
4. Cancer – Empathetic
Cancer is a water sign ruled by the Moon with an empathic nature. The moon enhances the water element in Cancer, allowing them to connect with intensity during intimacy resulting in mind-blowing experiences.
Engagement tips:
- Create a serene environment to ignite the mood.
- Be present to avoid disturbing the ambiance.
- Take turns touching and caressing each other.
Most compatible:
Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn, Pisces, Scorpio, Cancer
5. Leo - Extravagant
Leos, a fire sign ruled by the Sun, love to make a production out of the art of intimacy. They appreciate being made to feel special and at the same time will do the same for their partners.
Engagement tips:
- Be mindful and considerate in your actions, especially during intimacy.
- Be ready to indulge all your senses.
- Fire signs crave passion, so don’t be too shy or laid back.
Most compatible:
Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
6. Virgo – Devoted
Virgo is an Earth sign ruled by Mercury. The Earth element provides stamina and endurance while Mercury increases mental wit. Virgos are extremely considerate lovers who make it their business to make sure their partners are pleased both mentality and physically.
Engagement tips:
- Be considerate when it comes to your partner’s needs.
- Let your fingers do the talking, taking time to touch and physically engage.
- Take pride in your appearance since they will as well.
Most compatible:
Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn, Pisces, Scorpio, Cancer
7. Libra – Harmony
Libra is an air sign ruled by Venus. In Libra, Venus takes on a light and mellow approach, making the art of lovemaking fun and playful. Libras have a remarkable way of making you feel desired and special even in a platonic relationship.
Engagement tips:
- Be ready for spontaneous and unscripted fun.
- Avoid taking yourself too seriously, just relax and enjoy the moment.
- Be creative and allow your fun and romantic side to rise to the surface.
Most compatible:
Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
8. Scorpio – Sensual
Scorpio is a water sign ruled by Pluto which intensifies the need for deep and soulful connections. Lovemaking can take on a completely surreal journey of pleasure and surprises. They can be very sweet and loving or detached and fierce in their lovemaking style. Intimacy is really about how well you communicate your passions without fear.
Engagement tips:
- Do not fear the mystique, it won’t bite.
- Avoid feeling intimated, since it will dampen the sexy vibes.
- Let your sensual side shine!
Most compatible:
Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn, Pisces, Scorpio, Cancer
9. Sagittarius – Free Spirit
Sagittarius a fire sign ruled by Jupiter, which provides an expansive thirst for adventure. There is a carefree element that rules the no-frills Sagittarius. They view sex as a natural adventure that does not require fancy outfits, just honest to goodness lovemaking sometimes followed by a beer or a smoke.
Engagement tips:
- Be ready for spontaneous fun.
- Avoid being jealous or insecure, because this can become a serious turn-off.
- Don’t take yourself seriously and you will find you have the most fun.
Most compatible:
Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
10. Capricorn – Explorer
Capricorn is an Earth sign ruled by Saturn, which many assume is a serious ruler. Saturn gives Capricorn endurance and the ability to take on challenges. When it comes to intimacy, Capricorn may appear serious, however, they are tons of fun and easygoing without being outrageous.
Engagement tips:
- They are steady in lovemaking.
- Learn to take your time.
- Be ready for the unexpected.
Most compatible:
Capricorn, Scorpio, Virgo, Pisces, Taurus, Cancer
11. Aquarius – Mental Stimulator
Aquarius an air sign, ruled by Uranus and Saturn. Uranus gives Aquarius the ability to enjoy a variety of things, while Saturn provides endurance, making intimacy an adventurous experience. For Aquarius, intimacy begins within the mind, which gives them the skills to ignite the mood and cater to hidden desires.
Engagement tips:
- Allow your imagination to go wild.
- Communicate your desires.
- Don’t be afraid to try new things.
Most compatible:
Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
12. Pisces - Chameleon
Pisces is a water sign ruled by Neptune and Jupiter, which means they are good at accessing hidden desires without much fear. The water element provides Pisces with the ability to be empathic and sensitive to the needs of their partner.
Engagement tips:
- When it comes to intimacy, variety is welcomed.
- Be spontaneous and able to surprise with fun activities!
- No need to pretend - this allows for complete fulfillment.
Most compatible:
Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn, Pisces, Scorpio, Cancer
Keep in mind that the information provided here is meant as a guide. Your best technique is always to communicate directly with your partner and find out exactly what you both need and desire from your intimate connection.
Interested in Astrology? Check out our comprehensive Astrology Guide.
Minerva is a skilled Psychic, Tarot reader, Intuitive Coach, Interfaith Minister, and Reiki Master with a Degree in Psychology. She has more than 35 years of working as an intuitive coach and a psychic reader. Minerva, a Native New Yorker who enjoyed a career as a therapist and metaphysical teacher for over 30, has retired and is now devoted to doing psychic readings and writing. Minerva’s intuitive skills and experience as a therapist provide her with a solid background for exploring various heart and soul topics with compassion and deep understanding.