Can Soulmates Fall Out of Love? By Psychic Iris

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As we walk this evolutionary journey called life, we attract and meet certain people or soulmates. Being with these people can help us to integrate our shadow self (the inner darkness) and embrace our true inner light. In order to come into full completion of self-love and worth, we must also go through lessons of pain and sadness at times. This helps us to understand the depths of love and what we need to overcome. But, in the midst of those life lessons, can soulmates fall out of love?

Why Some Soulmate Relationships Fail

In every relationship, we act as a reflection of our own inner conditioning. The way we were brought up and what we viewed love when we were a child will always influence how we show up in our relationships. We all have been conditioned in many ways through trauma, religious and cultural programming, and what has been instilled in us from the outer world. So how do we really know what LOVE is? And why do we attract certain soulmates into our lives that can bring us so much unconditional love and acceptance yet so much pain and hardship?

Even in soulmate connections, many people wear false masks of deception in order to protect their heart from rejection, pain, abandonment, or any type of lower vibrational emotions that only show fear and unworthiness of love. We must decondition ourselves from the programming we were taught as a child and the experiences that were painful from previous relationships we had. We need to unlearn what the world taught us and how we thought we should act or behave in a partnership. 

Secondly, in order to have a successful healthy connection with a soulmate, we must first learn to love and put ourselves first. Only then will we know and understand what we deserve and just how valuable and worthy we are to have the highest form of love. 

Even Soulmates Need to Communicate

Once you enter into a soulmate connection you will feel so much love and excitement and a deep passionate bond with the other person, it feels as if nothing could ever go wrong. A soulmate can feel like your other half that you have been waiting for your whole life. The truth is that while this connection can feel wonderful, they are people, with their own set of flaws and baggage that can impact the relationship. Their insecurities could cause them to be less than forthcoming. Are they really showing you who they are, or could they be wearing a mask to hide something they do not want you to see? 

We can only know and discover the truth after exposing our deepest, truest selves to one another. In this process, we are shedding our defenses, layer by layer, to see if what lies underneath is really the person we fell in love with. We want to know things like: Can I trust this person? Do they really love me for who I am? Will they ever hurt me or betray my trust? Will they reject me when I show them who I am? 

It is important to know that some soul connections come into our lives, for a reason and sometimes just a season. We have to embrace knowing that not all soulmate connections last forever and that is okay. For the sake of your heart, always keep the focus on your own self-love and growth for your highest good. We can love another person with all of our heart and soul but that does not always mean they will give us the same in return. 

What is a Healthy Soulmate Connection

A healthy soulmate connection requires a balance, the same as any other relationship. You need an even give and take of our energy, time, and love. It requires patience and good communication where you both learn from one another and allow the other person to share their thoughts and feelings with you freely and openly. A relationship is about having complete trust in that person and knowing that you can feel free to be yourself and know that they will always be there for you. 

In a soulmate connection, if the other person ends up betraying you—whether it’s by cheating, lying, being deceptive, or just walking away from the relationship altogether—you must know and understand it is not your fault. We all make our own decisions. It is their own self-deception of unworthiness or lack of love they have for themselves that provides a karmic lesson to be learned from the whole experience. A soulmate connection can easily turn into a soul hate situation when we are not looking at it from a higher perspective. 

When Soulmates Don’t End Up Together

How do you deal with the rejection and pain that a person has put you through and, most importantly, how do you have the strength to forgive them so you can release and let them go? 

If you look at the relationship from a positive spiritual mindset, you will see only the truth that is being revealed to you. When a soulmate decides to walk away or betray someone for no good reason, it is their own self-deception at work. You are not at fault. It is helpful though to recognize any inner fears and shadows that start to come up for you at this time. It can help you better understand not only the truth in this past relationship, but also why we attract the type of people we do.

It all starts and ends with you. We must learn to forgive ourselves and others and heal through the emotional pain. Allowing ourselves to fully release and let go of any negative people or situations that are not serving us or in our highest good will help us move on. Only when you let go and surrender to your highest truth can you rise above all the obstacles of emotional pain and suffering to become reborn like the phoenix rising out of the ashes of darkness. It is through this deep transformation that you end your suffering and learn from the pain, releasing all karmic baggage once and for all. 

Love starts with the self and knowing and loving yourself unconditionally and completely with no strings attached. Love is free and it embodies the consciousness of being in your own power and knowing your self-worth as we are all Kings and Queens of our own domain. Once you allow the healing process and transformation to begin, you can now begin to focus on loving yourself and raising your vibrational frequency which will allow the right person to come into your life that is in alignment with who you are at your highest and best self. 

Love is the only real thing; everything else is an illusion.