As we move into harvest season, summer is reaching completion. We are about to embrace a new season of Autumn where the night forces return again reminding us of the importance of duty and responsibility in the sign of Virgo, representing those born between August 23rd- September 22nd. The Virgo man symbolizes the adult stages of life where we leave behind childhood and innocence. It is now a time to keep our focus on working and earning money to comply with society's rules and regulations. We are now becoming the practical, hardworking adult that seeks perfection in their business world. The Virgo man is an Earth sign, so he is infused with the qualities of being practical, efficient, hardworking, grounded, and values his money and time. He is now an evolved soul, who feels the need to serve humankind in order to have his needs met and to be of service in the world.
To the Virgo man, time is of the essence and he schedules his time under the demands of work and scholastic excellence. He feels he has to keep up with society and survival so he can be all about work and study. For him there is no play time until his goals are met. The Virgo man is critical of others, especially himself, as he leaves behind childhood innocence and is obsessed with surviving in the business world and its responsibilities.
The Virgo man can be a gentle, sensitive soul but does not like to show vulnerability. He can put all his time and energy into his work and duties as he is all about serving others to have his own needs whether it be financially or having others view him certain way. The Virgo man is ruled by the planet Mercury which symbolizes intellectual thoughts, travel, and ideas. He can be quite fixated or obsessed with his work and responsibilities, so he loses sight of being passionate in love and the importance of balance. To the Virgo man, love is about surrender of the self so they can put all their time and energy into the excellence of their work. They can be a gentle soul that offers devotion to a partner if they are willing to show their vulnerable side. The Virgo man believes that the true meaning of love lies within his pure virgin heart.
What is Love to a Virgo Man?
Love to a Virgo man is straightforward and direct. He is a devoted man who works very hard to sexually please his lover or partner in a relationship. He is obsessively cleanly and hygienic, as he prefers to keep things orderly and step by step when it comes to sex and intimacy in the bedroom. The Virgo man is sensitive and kind, but he projects an image of superior cynicism. He can be a master of disguises as he will put on different faces to different people in his life. The Virgo Man can be quite critical of others because he is used to being critical and judgmental of himself. He can keep a distance in relationships so that control can be maintained. In relationships, the Virgo man likes to play or act as a mentor to mold his partner into his own version of what the ideal mate would be like. The Virgo man can take on the role of the caretaker in the bedroom. He can be gentle and loving towards his partner, wanting to please and satisfy her sexually in every way.
The positive qualities that the Virgo man offers in a relationship are courtesy, kindness, service to others, practicality, and self-honesty. He can also be cranky, pessimistic, critical, timid, and inferior. The Virgo soul has reached a narcissus point, so it is important for them to awaken their inner fire of passion experienced in youth. Love can be a mental game or pursuit for the Virgo man, so it is wise for them to not be afraid to be open and vulnerable expressing their own needs and wants in a relationship. Love to a Virgo man is about simplistic experiences that make them feel more comfortable when getting to know their partner. It is truly about surrendering to oneself so you can embrace surrendering to your partner, creating an equal balance.
Sexual Behaviors and Attitudes of the Virgo Man
The Virgo man is very sexual in nature and sex is on his mind constantly. The Virgin prefers having sex at least 5 times a week for at least 45 minutes to an hour, along with 30 minutes of foreplay. The Virgo man is always available at any time to make love, but he prefers during the nighttime hours. He will take his time getting to know his lover before becoming sexual with her and if there is potential then he will take even more time.
The Virgo man is an Earth sign, so he is very concerned with health and wellness and staying physically fit. He views his sex life as a part of having an active lifestyle and he believes that sex enhances life and is spiritual. The Virgo man feels there needs to be a connection between him and his woman when he is intimate with her as it is not just about physical sensations but also a deep experience of spiritual bonding and ecstasy. The Virgo man is in no hurry and enjoys taking his time with his partner as he loves to watch his lover as he gives her pleasure. The Virgo man can enjoy quickies as well if there is no alternative to sex and he loves foreplay for two to four hours or as long as she will allow him to. The Virgo man is highly responsive to sexual lovemaking so he will take his time in developing an affair and he wants to know a woman well, even before becoming sexual. If a woman has high potential as a perfect mate he will spend as much time as necessary to ensure they connect, and the relationship becomes serious.
What Qualities Does the Virgo Man Look For in a Woman?
The Virgo man looks for a woman that is clean, in good shape, and puts much time and effort into her looks and appearance. He cares a lot about how a woman presents herself in public because it shows how much she cares about herself. The Virgo man pays attention to body weight and does not like if a woman is too skinny or overweight. He values a woman that is physically fit and works out or at least eats healthy and is proportionate in body weight. He does like a woman with curves but is most attracted to her sense of humor and intelligence when they converse with one another. He enjoys a partner who is highly sexually responsive to him and he can be turned off by a woman who is not neat or clean in appearance. It is important for the Virgo man that he is with a woman who is well put together, clean and orderly. To Virgos, taking good care of yourself and your body is key to any relationship as well as being hygienic.
It is vitally important to the Virgo man that he can have a deep intellectually stimulating conversation with the woman to create a comfort level between them where it feels safe as well. The Virgo man looks for a woman who has good behavior and manners in public and has positive energy. He can be easily turned off by someone who is too talkative or rude. The key to winning over a Virgo man is a woman who takes great pride in her physical appearance and is clean and orderly. Most importantly, a woman who is intellectual, can hold a conversation with him, and has a good sense of humor and an upbeat positive personality.
Virgo Turn-Ons:
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Cleanliness/orderly
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Physically fit
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Highly sexually responsive
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Sense of humor
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Nice face/eyes
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Proportional body weight
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Good energy
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Good behavior and manners
Virgo Turn-Offs:
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Poor hygiene
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Bad teeth
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Unclean
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Not put together well
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Shows disregard for her body
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Negative attitude
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Rude
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Not flashy
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Materialistic
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Too talkative
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Laughs nervously
Dating a Virgo Man:
When dating a Virgo man, he enjoys quiet time with his partner where they can become closer and more comfortable with spending time with each other. He is not overly romantic but is thoughtful and kind and loves when she makes romantic gestures. If a woman goes out of her way to cook a romantic candlelit dinner for him, he will be greatly impressed. The Virgo man prefers quiet activities such as going on walks, seeing a movie together or having a romantic dinner. He does not like loud or busy activities like going out to clubs, concerts, or things that prevent him from getting to know his partner. The Virgo man would rather spend time having intellectually stimulating conversations or discovering common interests. He likes to keep things calm and simple to embrace the time he is spending with his partner.
The Virgo man appreciates quiet time and he can enjoy county fairs, boat rides or just sitting together and having coffee. He enjoys being stimulated mentally with his partner and having a good time together. A wild activity for the Virgo man would be having sex in the car while driving on the highway as it stimulates his senses and creates excitement. Anything out of the ordinary would be fun for the Virgo man but watching a movie together or something simple is good for him too.
The Perfect Date:
The perfect date for a Virgo man would be quiet and reflective activities that allow both parties to connect with each other and gives him the chance to become more comfortable with her to get to know her better. He enjoys romantic dinners, taking walks, intellectual conversations, looking at the stars, going for a swim, or even attending galleries and antique shops. The Virgo man is very mental and ruled by his mind so anything that can be intellectually stimulating will be entertaining for him.
The Virgo man enjoys other activities such as hiking, sailing, and going to bookstores. He does enjoy making his lover or partner smile and feel that she is important and special to him. To the Virgo man, he wants to get to know the woman first and have that connection with his partner to be sure there is compatibility. The Virgo man always takes his time and is patient with his partner especially when he is really interested in a woman and thinks she may be the ideal mate for him.
Attracting a Virgo Man
The Virgo man is drawn to intelligence above all else, so engaging his mind is the surest way to capture his attention. When attempting to attract this analytical earth sign, focus on showcasing your intellect and knowledge in areas he finds interesting. Compliment him thoughtfully on his insights and perspectives rather than just his physical appearance, though a well-placed comment about how put-together he looks will certainly be appreciated.
Cleanliness and presentation play a crucial role in attracting a Virgo man. He values natural beauty over excessive makeup or flashy outfits. Instead, opt for classy fitted clothing that flatters your figure without being overtly revealing. Your appearance should reflect your self-respect and attention to detail – qualities the Virgo man holds in high regard. Personal hygiene is non-negotiable, as even the smallest oversight can be a major turn-off for this perfectionist sign.
The way you communicate with a Virgo man can make or break his attraction to you. Maintain steady eye contact during conversations to show genuine interest, and use subtle body language cues to indicate your attraction. A light touch on the arm or leaning in slightly during conversation can speak volumes. When it comes to flirtation, take a straightforward approach with thoughtful, flirtatious questions that engage his mind. The Virgo man appreciates genuine affection over grand dramatic gestures, and values someone who can match his healthy attitude towards relationships and sexuality. If you can present yourself as intellectually stimulating with a hint of mystery and a secret kinky side, you'll have this earth sign completely intrigued.
Virgo Man Sexual Traits
The Virgo man brings his characteristic attention to detail and perfectionism into the bedroom, making him one of the most attentive and respectful lovers of the zodiac. His eye for detail allows him to pick up on the subtlest reactions from his partner, cataloging what works and what doesn't with scientific precision. This Earth sign approaches intimacy with the same methodical care he applies to all areas of his life, taking pride in mastering his partner's body and discovering her unique erogenous zones.
Visual stimulation plays a significant role in the Virgo man's arousal. He is highly receptive to the sight of his partner and finds great pleasure in watching her enjoy herself. While he maintains high standards for personal hygiene and expects the same from his partner, this seemingly uptight sign often harbors a deep appreciation for partners who have a secret kinky side. The contrast between public propriety and private passion is incredibly enticing to him.
Perhaps surprising to those who know only his controlled exterior, the Virgo man often possesses naturally submissive tendencies in intimate settings. He may fantasize about relinquishing his carefully maintained control and becoming something of a sexual slave to his partner's desires. This submissiveness stems from his service-oriented nature – his ultimate pleasure is in pleasuring you. Virgo men are stable and dependable partners who approach sex with a healthy attitude, valuing both the physical and emotional connection it creates. Their natural inclination to serve makes them extremely receptive to instruction and feedback, always striving to perfect their technique and provide the ultimate pleasure experience.
Virgo Man in Bed
Behind closed doors, the meticulous Virgo man often reveals a surprisingly adventurous and kinky side that few would suspect based on his composed public persona. His natural curiosity and desire for perfection drive him to explore a wide range of experiences in the bedroom, constantly seeking to refine his technique and expand his repertoire. However, this experimental spirit is balanced by his pragmatic nature – any new activity must pass his practical assessment before becoming part of his sexual landscape.
For the Virgo man, mental connection is as crucial to satisfying intimacy as physical touch. Intellectual stimulation serves as a powerful aphrodisiac, and engaging his mind through thoughtful conversation or playful banter can be as arousing as direct physical contact. He processes experiences analytically, which means that transparency and communication about desires and boundaries help him feel secure enough to fully express himself. This need for mental engagement makes dirty talk particularly effective with Virgo men, as it satisfies both their craving for verbal stimulation and their secret desire for taboo expressions.
Creating an environment of comfort and safety is essential for a Virgo man to fully embrace his sexual nature. His tendency toward self-consciousness and performance anxiety can be barriers to complete abandon in bed. He needs validation and appreciation from his partner to counter his inclination toward harsh self-criticism. When he feels truly accepted and valued, his grounding presence and attentiveness make him an exceptional lover. A partner who can provide consistent reassurance while gently encouraging him to let go of his perfectionism will be rewarded with the full depth of his sensual capacity. The confidence he gains from this acceptance allows his natural skills to shine, resulting in mutually satisfying experiences that grow more nuanced and fulfilling over time.
Virgo's Approach to Intimacy
The Virgo man approaches intimacy with the same methodical care he applies to all aspects of his life. He views sex as a necessary part of life that should be analyzed, perfected, and optimized for maximum pleasure. This mutable earth sign often spends considerable time thinking about and planning intimate encounters, preferring the path of least resistance where variables are controlled and outcomes are predictable. Cleanliness is paramount in his approach – a messy environment or concerns about hygiene can completely derail his ability to be present and engaged.
Despite his reputation for having an uptight attitude, the Virgo man typically maintains basic partner preferences that help him feel secure. However, beneath this carefully constructed framework lies the potential for much freakier tendencies than most would expect. While he may present as reserved in public, in private with a trusted partner, his kinkier side can emerge, revealing interests that would surprise those who only know his composed exterior. Sex becomes an indulgent act where he can temporarily set aside his constant self-monitoring.
The duality of the Virgo man's nature creates an interesting balance in intimacy. On one hand, his self-consciousness makes him hesitant to fully let go; on the other, his desire for perfect performance drives him to be extremely attentive to his partner's needs. This tension between reserve and exploration characterizes his sexual expression. With patience and reassurance, a partner can help the Virgo man reconcile these opposing forces, allowing him to maintain his need for order while still embracing spontaneity and passion. When he finds this balance, the Virgo man's capacity for intimacy deepens considerably, revealing the sensual, earthy nature that lies at the core of this often misunderstood sign.
Famous Virgo Men:
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Sean Connery
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Kobe Bryant
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Tim Burton
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Freddy Mercury
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Bill Murray
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Tommy Lee Jones
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Macaulay Culkin
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Adam Sandler
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David Copperfield
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Oliver Stone
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Van Morrison
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Gene Kelly
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